When is it over?

I would have to say that I know its over when one or the other starts dating comfortably. I would hate to think that an ex was just cut off by the other because the relationship is over. I would say that there is a sense of responsibility that I have towards someone who has spent so much time letting their gaurd down for me. To just have them cast aside and not provide ANY emotional recovery period until they are comfortable out there is not with in my character. Now, does that work for everyone, no. And trust me, its not always a joy to be the first one to get that call about the new love interest, but I'd pick up the phone everytime.