Lies and excuses are a natural part of communication……

Let me begin by saying that excuses lies are wrong. In stating that fact we all know there are times a person will give us an excuse or a lie, and instead of calling them out on their lie we turn the other cheek. Often people say it is the truth, but the both of you know it’s a lie. I’m not trying to say you can always tell when somebody is lying. Yet, I am saying that some individuals exude certain nonverbal characteristics. (E.g) Sweatiness, direct eye contact avoidance, felling the needs to swallow after each answer among many others. Personally I have never caught anyone in a lie that was bad enough to effect my relationship with them. That can say one of two things about me or maybe both are true. One I may be to naive to notice I’m being lied to. Or two I could just no give a damn.