I think it's 50-50

I'm kind of in agreement with those of you who said gender. However, I dont't think it is able to be pinned down to one topic. If I had to say, I'd say it's a mixture of gender and race. I will not dispute the fact that in today's society gender does play a large part in roles we play. Yes society experts men to be tough an not to cry. Yes men are also are taught to treat women a certain way etc... But I also believe that gender is a factor of definition, but race is the other major contributiong factor. I believe you cannot have a full complete person without both of these.